Strap-On Kits

Your Guide to Strap On Kits

Picking from our strap on kits should feel easy, not clinical. Whether this is your first harness set or an upgrade from a worn-out favorite, the right choice comes down to harness fit, attachment size, and the materials that touch skin. None of that has to feel technical when you shop, and we keep the language plain so it stays fun.

Most strap on kits bundle a comfortable harness with a body-safe attachment, so you get a coordinated pair right out of the box. That matching set is the whole appeal, since it takes the guesswork out of pairing pieces yourself. Good strap on kits are made for sharing, which is exactly why they are such a popular first buy for couples.

This guide walks through the main harness styles and how to size a set comfortably. We keep it pressure-free from start to finish. If you are new to this, our guide to using a hollow strap-on is a friendly place to start.

Types of Strap On Kits

The strap on kits we carry come in a few friendly families. Simple adjustable-strap sets are the forgiving place most couples start, while firmer leather and buckle harnesses deliver a more secure, structured hold. Both share the same idea, pairing a comfortable harness with a body-safe attachment in one coordinated pack.

Some strap on kits pair the harness with a vibrating attachment both partners can enjoy, and others include a soft, beginner-sized silicone piece to keep a first try easy. Panty and thigh-style harnesses spread the fit differently, which some couples find more comfortable to wear.

Strapless and hands-free designs round out the family for couples who want fewer pieces. Adjustable O-ring plates let you swap attachments of different sizes as your comfort grows. Whichever style you choose, every one of our strap on kits ships in a plain brown box.

A few favorites to explore: the King Cock Strap on Harness With 6 Inch Cock, the The Original Accommodator Latex Dong, and the Heavenly Harness.

How to Choose the Right Strap On Kits

Start with the harness. A soft, fully adjustable strap set is the safest first pick because it fits a wide range and feels comfortable, while a leather harness offers a firmer, more structured hold. If you are shopping together for the first time, the adjustable option is the most forgiving and the easiest to share.

Next, look at the attachment. Beginner-friendly strap on kits include a slim, body-safe silicone piece, and a smaller size is always the kinder place to start before working up.

Then weigh material and fit. Body-safe silicone attachments are soft, easy to clean, and simple to swap, and a little water-based lubricant makes everything comfortable to wear and remove. A snug-but-comfortable harness should never pinch, so adjust the straps until the fit feels right.

Budget is the last piece, and quality strap on kits live at every price here. A simple adjustable set costs very little, while premium leather harnesses and rechargeable vibrating sets buy more durability and features. Start with whatever feels comfortable to spend, and trade up later if a particular format wins you over.

For a broader look across styles, browse our best strap-ons picks.

Cleaning, Storage & Discreet Shipping

Body-safe silicone is our default because it is nonporous, gentle on skin, and simple to keep clean — warm water, a mild unscented soap, and a full dry before storage. Pair silicone attachments only with water-based lubricant so the surface stays smooth.

Wash the harness by material, wiping leather with a dedicated conditioner and rinsing fabric straps as the label directs, then let everything dry fully. Store each set on its own so the pieces stay fresh, and a quick rinse before and after use keeps cleanup fast.

Discretion is built into every order. Your strap on kits arrive in a plain brown box with a discreet billing descriptor, so no one needs to know what is inside — not your roommate, your family, or your nosy neighbor.

For a neutral, well-sourced primer on how these work, the overview at Wikipedia's strap-on article is a friendly read. We are a veteran-owned shop, and helping first-timers feel comfortable is exactly why we are here.