Strap-On Dildo Couples — Gender Fluid Enthrall Black by Gender Fluid

Strap-On Dildo Couples User Guide & Play Styles

First-time pegging with a harness-compatible dildo: where to start

If this is your first time exploring strap-on play together, the Gender Fluid Enthrall is a reassuring place to begin. Snap the black silicone base into a compatible O-ring or open-front harness, apply a generous amount of water-based lubricant — silicone lube can degrade silicone toys, so stick with water-based — and let the curved tip guide you toward the g-spot or prostate. The beginner strap-on dildo size in the 4–7 inch range keeps things approachable. Read more in our guide to dildo benefits before your first session.

Suction cup strap-on play: more positions, more freedom

Not every session needs a harness. Press the Enthrall’s suction-cup base firmly onto any smooth, non-porous surface — a tile wall, a hard-backed chair, a bath ledge — and you have a fully hands-free pegging dildo couples can use in positions that aren’t possible in a harness alone. The same base works with select toy mounts and sex furniture. For couples exploring new territory, this body-safe silicone dildo keeps the focus on connection, not logistics. Browse the full strap-on kits collection for harness pairing options.