The Best Anal Dildos —Go Deeper, Comfortably.

How to Choose the Best Anal Dildos

The best anal dildo for you comes down to size, shape, material and how you want to use it. Here is how to choose yours, whether it is your first or an upgrade.

Always a flared base or suction cup

This is the rule that matters most: every anal dildo must have a wide, flared base or a suction cup so it cannot slip too far in. Every one of the best anal dildos has one — a suction cup also lets you ride hands-free on any smooth surface.

Sizing for beginners

New to this? Start with a slim, smooth, body-safe silicone shaft and work up gradually. The best anal dildos for beginners are narrow and gently tapered, so they ease in comfortably with plenty of lube.

Material: silicone, glass or metal

Body-safe silicone is soft, warm and forgiving; glass and metal are firm, smooth and temperature-play friendly. All three are non-porous and body-safe — pick by the feel you want and your budget.

How to use an anal dildo

Use plenty of body-safe lube, relax, and ease the dildo in slowly — never force it. Let your body adjust, find a comfortable angle and pace, and remove gently by the base. Going slow is the secret to comfortable anal play.

Thrusting & vibrating styles

Some of the best anal dildos do the work for you — motorized thrusting shafts and vibrating models add rhythm and sensation hands-free. Start manual, then explore powered options once you are comfortable.

Solo or with a partner

An anal dildo with a suction cup sticks to the floor, wall or shower for hands-free solo riding, while a flared-base dildo is easy for a partner to hold and guide. The best anal dildo works either way — it is all about comfort, angle and control, at whatever pace feels right.

Safety & Care

We only carry body-safe materials — medical-grade silicone, glass and metal — each with a flared base. Stop if anything feels painful, and never share a dildo without cleaning or a fresh condom.

Cleaning your anal dildo

Wash before and after every use with warm water and a fragrance-free toy cleaner, dry fully, and store it apart from other toys. Charge any thrusting or vibrating dildo before first use.

Lube — go generous

The backdoor does not self-lubricate, so use plenty of water-based lubricant and reapply often. Water-based works with every material; avoid silicone lube on silicone toys.

Why Shop the Best Anal Dildos at Discreet Toys

We are veteran-owned and judgment-free, and we only carry body-safe gear with a safe flared base. Every one of the best anal dildos on this page ships in a plain brown box with a discreet billing descriptor.

Exploring should feel easy and private. That is why every order earns free 3-day USPS Priority over $69, with beginner-friendly guidance and judgment-free support every step of the way. Whatever you are curious about, your comfort comes first.

The best anal dildos should be body-safe, discreet, and yours — it's only freaky the first time.