Velvet Velcro Adjustable Harness — Strap-On Harness with O-Ring by Shots

Velvet Velcro Adjustable Harness User Guide & Play Styles

Using the adjustable strap-on harness for the first time as a couple

If you and your partner are exploring pegging or strap-on play for the first time, this beginner strap-on harness is a welcoming starting point. Loosen all the Velcro straps fully before stepping in, position the waist strap at a comfortable height, then fasten and adjust the thigh straps until the harness sits stable. The black velvet material stays comfortable against skin while you get settled. Thread your chosen dong through the O-ring and do a quick tug test before play begins — communication about pace and angle makes the experience easier for both partners. For more ideas on exploring together, browse our couples pleasure collection or check out our guide to using a strap-on.

Choosing the right dong for your couples strap-on harness

One of the best features of this one-size adjustable harness is its harness-compatible O-ring, which works with a wide variety of separately sold dongs — so you and your partner can select the material, size, and style that fits your comfort level. Body-safe silicone dongs pair especially well with a velvet harness since both are easy to clean after use. Beginners often prefer a slimmer, softer option while they get used to the fit; more experienced couples may explore different sizes over time. The adjustable waist and thigh straps keep everything stable regardless of which dong you choose. Browse the full harness-only range to compare styles.