Some experiences defy expectation — the Spread The Love toy from Gender X delivers a sensation that’s genuinely unlike anything else, pairing independent spreading motion with powerful deep vibrations for a layered experience you can tailor to exactly what feels best.

Material & Construction

Crafted from phthalate-free and latex-free silicone, this toy has been lab tested for body safety so you can focus entirely on enjoyment. The twin shafts each taper to a gentle tip and gradually widen toward the base, making for a natural, comfortable fit as you ease in. The ergonomic handle doubles as a flared safety base — a non-negotiable design feature for any toy you plan to use anally — keeping everything secure and giving you confident, comfortable control whether you’re holding it yourself or handing over the included remote.

How to Use

With 9 vibrating speeds and patterns alongside 8 spreading speeds and patterns, there’s enormous range here to explore. Start low and slow on the vibration side while getting familiar with the spreading motion — the two fingers spread up to 1 inch apart, creating a uniquely full, rhythmic sensation at the insertable length of 4.5 inches and diameter of 1.52 inches. The included remote has a generous 32-foot range, making it a natural choice for shared play, travel, or a little discreet public adventure. Twist it, thrust it, or simply let the toy do its work — the ergonomic handle makes every approach feel natural.

Care & Cleaning

Because this toy is waterproof to IPX-6 standards, cleanup is refreshingly easy — rinse it thoroughly under warm water with a dedicated toy cleaner, or use mild soap. Dry completely before storing. Recharging is just as simple with the included USB cable; a full charge before each session ensures you get the most from every pattern and speed setting.

Discreet Shipping

Your order ships in a plain brown box with no revealing labels — just your address and ours. Orders of $69 or more qualify for free shipping, and most customers receive their package within 3 days via USPS Priority Mail. Discreet Toys is a veteran-owned business, and we take your privacy as seriously as you do.