Some toys make you work for it. The Selfie Flame is built to do the work for you — its teardrop shaft and curved clitoral arm wrap around your body so every sensitive spot gets the attention it deserves, leaving your hands free for everything else.

Material & Construction

Crafted from smooth, body-safe silicone in a deep violet purple, the Flame features a gently textured ridge that runs from tip to base along the shaft for targeted G-spot stimulation. The clitoral arm curves to meet you exactly where you need it, while the backside of the shaft delivers perineal massage — giving you three distinct zones of sensation from a single, ergonomically shaped toy. Two independent motors power the experience, so you can run them together or dial each one in separately for a truly personalized session.

How to Use

Start with a generous amount of water-based lubricant on the silicone surface. Insert the teardrop shaft and let the curved clitoral stimulator rest against you — the hands-free design means you can focus on connection with a partner or simply relax into the moment. Use the intuitive controls to cycle through multi-function pulsating and vibrating patterns, adjusting the intensity of each motor independently. Five distinct pleasure modes let you escalate gently or go straight to multi-speed intensity — whatever matches your mood.

Care & Cleaning

Because the Flame is fully waterproof, cleanup is easy: rinse under warm running water and use a toy-safe cleaner or mild soap. Pat dry with a lint-free cloth and store in a pouch away from other toys. Recharge using the included magnetic USB cable; whisper-quiet motors mean you won’t have to worry about thin walls.

Discreet Shipping

Your Selfie Flame ships in a plain brown box with no identifying labels — just your name and address. Orders of $69 or more qualify for free shipping via 3-day USPS Priority Mail. Discreet Toys is a veteran-owned, judgment-free retailer and we treat every order with the privacy it deserves.