Wand Speed Controller — Multi-Function Wand Controller by XR Brands

Wand Speed Controller User Guide & Play Styles

Using a hands-free wand controller together as a couple.

For couples exploring shared wand play for the first time, the hands-free design removes a lot of the coordination awkwardness. One partner manages the dial on this variable wand speed controller while the other focuses entirely on the sensation — or clip it to your beltline so neither of you has to hold anything. The black rubber-and-metal body feels solid, and the extra cord length means you’re not tethered to the nearest outlet. Keep the material clean between sessions with a quick wipe-down of the exterior. For more ideas on bringing a wand into shared play, browse our couples sex toys guide.

Solo sessions with an adjustable wand controller.

Going solo with an adjustable wand controller means you set the pace entirely. Start low, ease the dial toward your preferred intensity, and dial back whenever you want — there’s no jumping between two fixed speeds. The XR Brands controller works with most two-speed wand massagers, so if you already own a wand, you likely don’t need to buy a new one. For a deeper dive into vibrator basics, read our how to use a vibrator guide.