Pony Play Head Harness — Dark Horse by XR Brands

Pony Play Head Harness User Guide & Play Styles

Using this silicone bit harness at kink events and private scenes.

The Dark Horse kink head harness was built for confident couples who know exactly what they want from a power-exchange scene. The all-black silicone and metal build reads immediately at a kink event, while the six-point adjustable fit means you can dress the harness precisely before the scene begins — no fumbling mid-dynamic. The removable silicone bit unsnaps cleanly whenever verbal communication is needed, keeping consent seamlessly built into the design. For more on structuring a restraint scene safely, read our guide to restraining your partner.

Pony play gear for advanced couples exploring role-based dynamics.

Pony play sits at the intersection of costume, control, and trust — and the right adjustable head harness grounds the entire dynamic. With equine ears and a premium silicone bit in place, the material and aesthetic do the character work so partners can stay in the scene. Clean the silicone bit with warm water and mild soap after each session; wipe the vegan-friendly straps and nickel-free metal hardware with a damp cloth and toy-safe cleaner, then air-dry fully before storing. Explore more advanced kink gear at our Kink Pleasure landing.