Hold Me Under the Bed — Restraint System by XR Brands

Hold Me Under the Bed User Guide & Play Styles

Using restraints during sex: anchoring your partner for full control

The hold me under the bed system is designed for couples who are past the exploratory phase and want reliable, repeatable restraint. Slide the H-shaped straps under the mattress before play begins, then route the cuffs to wrists and ankles. The adjustable buckles let you dial in tension precisely — enough to restrict movement while keeping sensation and intensity exactly where you want them. The faux fur cuffs keep the edge from tipping into discomfort, making extended restraint sex positions practical and sustainable. After the session, spot-clean the cuffs and fold the straps flat for storage.

Next-level gear for couples escalating their bondage practice

As bed restraints for sex go, this XR Brands system delivers the kind of structural control that improvised ties can’t match. The 48-inch strap length handles most standard mattresses without slippage, and the heavy-duty Velcro holds through sustained movement. Use it alongside blindfolds or other restraints to layer sensation and deepen the trust dynamic. For technique, positioning strategy, and safety protocols, the bondage guide covers the details worth knowing before you escalate.