The Best Male Masturbators —Built for Solo Play.

How to Choose the Best Male Masturbator

The best male masturbator for you depends on how you like to play, how much you want to spend, and how discreet it needs to be. Here is how to choose yours, whether it is your first toy or an upgrade.

Manual vs automatic

A manual stroker puts you in full control of speed and pressure and costs the least. An automatic male masturbator does the work for you with motorized thrusting, suction or rotation — more of an investment, but completely hands-free. Most men start manual and graduate to automatic.

Open-ended vs closed-ended

Closed-ended sleeves (like a pocket pussy) build suction for a more intense, enveloping feel. Open-ended strokers let you pass all the way through — easier to clean and ideal for edging or stamina training. Either can be one of the best male masturbators depending on what you are after.

Sleeve material & texture

Body-safe silicone and premium TPE feel soft and lifelike. Inside, ribs, nubs and chambers create the texture — gentle and smooth for beginners, intense and varied for experienced users. Realistic molds add a lifelike entrance for the closest-to-real feel.

Discretion & storage

Pocket strokers hide in a drawer; larger devices come with cases. Everything ships in a plain brown box with a discreet billing descriptor, so the best male masturbators stay your business and no one else's.

Beginner-friendly picks

New to this? A soft, closed-ended silicone stroker under $40 is the easiest first step — forgiving, body-safe and simple to use. Our best male masturbators for beginners build confidence with no learning curve.

Body-Safe Materials & Care

We only carry body-safe materials — medical-grade silicone and premium TPE, non-toxic and phthalate-free — because your sexual health comes first.

Cleaning your stroker

Rinse the sleeve with warm water and a fragrance-free toy cleaner before and after every use, dry it fully to keep TPE fresh, and dust with renewing powder if the maker recommends it. Charge any automatic or vibrating device before first use.

Lube pairing

Always pair a male masturbator with a generous amount of water-based lubricant — water-based works with every sleeve material and will not degrade silicone or TPE. Reapply as needed for a smooth, comfortable glide.

Why Shop the Best Male Masturbators at Discreet Toys

We are veteran-owned and judgment-free, and we only carry body-safe materials. Every one of the best male masturbators on this page ships in a plain brown box with a discreet billing descriptor.

Shopping should feel easy and private. That is why every order earns free 3-day USPS Priority over $69, with beginner-friendly guidance and men's wellness support every step of the way. Whatever you are exploring, your pleasure comes first.

The best male masturbators should be body-safe, discreet, and yours — it's only freaky the first time.