Female Bondage Spreader — The Pussy Spreader by XR Brands

Female Bondage Spreader User Guide & Play Styles

Using an adjustable metal bondage spreader in advanced couples play

For couples with an established foundation of trust and communication, this adjustable metal female bondage spreader opens up a wide range of intentional play. Detach the six wooden clothespins from the center ring, position the black metal ring, then apply each clothespin to a section of the labia. The outer adjusters let you set exactly how wide — total precision. From there, penetration with a dildo or clitoral stimulation with a vibrator becomes deeply immersive. Clean the metal parts with a damp cloth and mild cleaner after each session; for the wooden clothespins, a lightly dampened wipe is enough — avoid soaking. For a wider look at bondage fundamentals, read our bondage for beginners guide.

Layering the XR Brands spreader into your kink toolkit

The XR Brands female bondage spreader doesn’t work in isolation — it layers naturally into an existing couples bondage spreader setup. Its one-size metal ring doubles as a cock ring, extending the versatility well beyond its primary use. Store the full set clipped onto the retaining ring between sessions to keep its shape. Browse the full spreaders collection for complementary restraint accessories.