Silicone Labia Spreader — Petal Pusher by XR Brands

Silicone Labia Spreader User Guide & Play Styles

Using a vibrating labia spreader during partnered intercourse

The Petal Pusher’s hands-free design is what makes it exceptional for couples. Bend this pink silicone labia spreader to your preferred narrowness — the metal core locks that shape in place — apply water-based lubricant, and position the central G-spot bump toward the front wall. Once seated, the flexible ends hold labia spread wide while your partner’s hands roam freely. The stimulation beads on the ring add sensation for a penis during intercourse, making this a genuinely two-sided experience. For more on integrating toys into shared intimacy, read our couples sex toys guide. Clean the silicone exterior with warm water and toy-safe soap before and after every session.

Advanced solo or couples exploration with a bendable spreader

Confident, advanced users will appreciate how the XR Brands Petal Pusher doubles as a solo exploration tool — the vibrating feature and G-spot bump deliver targeted sensation with zero extra effort. The pink silicone outer material stays comfortable across longer sessions, and the metal core means you’re not constantly readjusting. Curious about introducing kink accessories into your routine? Our bondage for beginners guide covers how to layer sensation-focused accessories into new dynamics with a partner.