Bendable Silicone Wand — Flexi Wand by Gender X

Bendable Silicone Wand User Guide & Play Styles

Using the rechargeable silicone wand together for the first time

Trying a wand as a couple for the first time should feel exciting, not overwhelming. Start the Flexi Wand on its lowest speed, nestle the round ball tip against an erogenous zone, and hand control to your partner — the textured grip makes passing it back and forth natural. The bendable shaft means whoever is holding it can adjust angle and pressure without breaking the moment. Because the silicone material is waterproof, the bath or shower is a low-pressure setting that many couples find great for a first session. For more ideas on couples sex toys, browse our full guide. Clean the wand after use with warm water and a toy-safe cleaner to keep the silicone in great shape.

Solo sessions with a flexible vibrating wand

Solo play with the Flexi Wand is just as rewarding. The waterproof bendable wand lets you explore different positions in and out of the water — flex the shaft to find the angle that works for your body, then cycle through all 9 speeds with one thumb on the base button. The pink silicone surface stays comfortable against skin across longer sessions, and the rechargeable build means you’re never scrambling for batteries. Read our guide to how to use a vibrator for tips on maximising every speed setting.