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How to Choose the Best Dildos for You

The best dildo is simply the one that matches what you want to feel. Three things decide it: material, size and shape. Below, we break down how we pick the best dildos so you can pick yours with confidence.

Material: silicone vs. glass

Body-safe medical-grade silicone is soft, warm and flexible — the most beginner-friendly material and our most popular. A hand-finished borosilicate glass dildo is firm and non-porous, and ready for temperature play. Warm it or cool it under water for a brand-new sensation.

Both are non-toxic, phthalate-free, hypoallergenic and easy to clean — premium quality you can trust. The best dildos are always body-safe, because your sexual health comes first.

Realistic, glass or vibrating?

A realistic dildo is all about lifelike feel and fullness, while a glass dildo is sleek, firm and the only type ready for temperature play. A vibrating dildo layers a rumble onto the shape for extra sensation. Many of the best dildos blend these traits — a dual density dildo with a suction cup, say — so let your favorite sensation lead.

Size and shape

If it is your first dildo, start in the 5-to-6-inch range with a gentle curve. It is big enough to feel and easy to control. A suction cup dildo adds hands-free and harness-friendly play, while a curved or bulbous tip leans into G-spot stimulation and clitoral stimulation.

Beginner-friendly picks

New to this? A soft silicone beginner dildo under $40 with a suction-cup base is the easiest first step — forgiving, body-safe and budget-friendly. Our best dildos for beginners are gentle on the body, build intimate confidence, and easy on the wallet.

From there, a realistic dildo adds lifelike fullness, a vibrating dildo adds a rumble, and a glass dildo adds temperature play once you are ready to explore.

Body-Safe Materials & Care

A little care keeps your dildo body-safe and beautiful for years. The good news: silicone and glass are both non-porous, so they are quick to clean, gentle on intimate skin, and kind to your vaginal health.

Cleaning and storage

Wash before and after every use with warm water and a fragrance-free toy cleaner. Store each dildo separately in a soft pouch so different materials never react. The best dildos are easy to clean and built to last.

Lube pairing

Pair your dildo with a body-safe lubricant for comfort. Water-based lube works with everything; save silicone lube for a glass dildo only, since silicone lube can break down a silicone toy over time.

Why Shop the Best Dildos at Discreet Toys

We are veteran-owned and judgment-free, and we only carry body-safe materials. Every one of the best dildos on this page ships in a plain brown box with a discreet billing descriptor.

Shopping the best dildos should feel easy and private. That is why every order earns free 3-day USPS Priority shipping over $69, with beginner-friendly guidance and women’s wellness support every step of the way. Whether you are exploring female pleasure for the first time or adding to your collection, your sexual wellness comes first.

The best dildos should be body-safe, discreet, and yours — it’s only freaky the first time.