Guide to Features of Sex Toys
Complete Guide to Sex Toy Features: Understanding Materials, Functions, and Technologies
Modern sex toys incorporate an impressive array of features, materials, and technologies designed to enhance pleasure, safety, and convenience. Understanding these features helps you make informed decisions when selecting toys that match your preferences, needs, and lifestyle. This comprehensive guide explains every major feature category, from material composition and safety certifications to power options and specialized functions, helping you navigate the sometimes overwhelming world of adult toy specifications.
Material Features: Safety and Sensation
The material of a sex toy is perhaps its most important feature, affecting safety, sensation, maintenance, and longevity.
Phthalate-Free
What it means: The toy contains no phthalates—chemicals used to soften plastics that have been linked to hormone disruption and other health concerns.
Why it matters:
- Phthalates can leach from toys into body tissues during use
- Studies link phthalate exposure to reproductive health issues, hormone disruption, and developmental problems
- The EU has banned phthalates in children's toys due to health concerns
- Body-safe sex toys should always be phthalate-free
How to identify: Look for explicit "phthalate-free" labeling. Avoid "jelly rubber" and PVC toys unless specifically certified phthalate-free. Quality silicone, glass, metal, and ABS plastic toys are naturally phthalate-free.
Shop phthalate-free toys: Browse our complete phthalate-free collection
Latex-Free
What it means: The toy contains no natural rubber latex, making it safe for people with latex allergies or sensitivities.
Why it matters:
- Latex allergies affect 4-8% of the population and can range from mild irritation to severe allergic reactions
- Symptoms can include itching, redness, hives, or in severe cases, anaphylaxis
- Latex-free toys use alternative materials like silicone, polyisoprene, or nitrile
Common latex-free materials: Medical-grade silicone, TPE/TPR, glass, metal, ABS plastic, wood
Shop latex-free toys: Browse our latex-free collection
Glass
What it means: Toys made from borosilicate glass—the same durable, heat-resistant glass used in laboratory equipment and quality cookware.
Benefits:
- Temperature play: Can be safely warmed or cooled for unique sensations
- Hygiene: Non-porous surface doesn't harbor bacteria; can be fully sterilized
- Firmness: Provides intense, focused pressure ideal for G-spot or prostate stimulation
- Durability: When properly cared for, glass toys last a lifetime
- Aesthetics: Often beautifully designed with swirls, colors, or elegant shapes
- Compatible with all lubricants: Works with silicone, water-based, and oil-based lubes
Considerations:
- Very firm with no flexibility—not ideal for everyone
- Requires careful handling to avoid drops or impacts
- Inspect before each use for chips or cracks
- Can feel cold initially (though this warms quickly or can be a feature)
Temperature play tips: Warm glass toys in warm (not hot) water for 5-10 minutes, or cool in cool (not ice) water or the refrigerator. Never use boiling water, microwaves, or freezers—extreme temperature changes can damage the glass and create unsafe temperatures.
Shop glass toys: Browse our glass dildo and toy collection
Design Features: Shape and Function
G-Spot Design
What it means: Toys with a pronounced upward curve specifically angled to reach and stimulate the G-spot—an erogenous zone located 2-3 inches inside the vagina on the front wall.
Key characteristics:
- Upward curve that targets the front vaginal wall
- Often features a bulbous or wider tip for enhanced pressure
- May be angled at 30-45 degrees from the shaft
- Some include additional textures or ridges for intensified sensation
Best for: Those seeking internal orgasms, users who have difficulty reaching the G-spot with straight toys, anyone interested in exploring G-spot pleasure
Usage tip: Insert with the curve facing upward (toward your belly button) and use firm pressure against the front vaginal wall. G-spot stimulation often requires more pressure and time than clitoral stimulation.
Shop G-spot toys: Browse our G-spot vibrator and dildo collection
Rabbit-Style
What it means: Dual-stimulation toys featuring an insertable shaft for internal pleasure plus an external arm (traditionally shaped like rabbit ears) for simultaneous clitoral stimulation.
Benefits:
- Dual stimulation: Addresses both internal and external pleasure zones simultaneously
- Hands-free clitoral stimulation: The external arm stays in contact with the clitoris during penetration
- Enhanced orgasm potential: Combination stimulation often produces more intense orgasms
- Efficiency: Targets multiple pleasure zones without switching toys
Considerations:
- Requires specific anatomical fit—distance between vagina and clitoris varies, so not all rabbits work for all bodies
- Less flexible than using separate toys
- Can be bulkier and more complex than single-function toys
Variations: Modern rabbit-style toys include adjustable arms, flexible positioning, various shaft shapes (straight, curved, rotating), and both vibrating and non-vibrating external stimulators.
Shop rabbit vibrators: Browse our rabbit-style vibrator collection
Bendable/Flexible
What it means: Toys with bendable shafts or flexible construction that can be curved or positioned to match your anatomy and preferences.
Benefits:
- Customizable angles: Adjust to find your perfect G-spot or prostate angle
- Accommodates anatomy: Flexible toys adapt to your body rather than requiring your body to adapt to the toy
- Versatility: One toy can serve multiple positions and purposes
- Comfort: Flexibility typically makes insertion easier and more forgiving
- Partner play: Bendable toys can maintain contact during movement
Types of flexibility:
- Poseable wire core: Toys with internal wire that holds any shape you bend it into
- Naturally flexible silicone: Soft, squishy toys that bend during use but return to original shape
- Hinged or articulated: Toys with joints that lock into specific angles
Shop bendable toys: Browse our flexible and bendable collection
Realistic Feel/Design
What it means: Toys designed to look and feel like actual human anatomy, featuring details like veins, skin texture, defined heads, and anatomically accurate shapes.
Features may include:
- Realistic coloring and skin tones
- Textured surface mimicking skin and veins
- Dual-density construction (firm core with soft outer layer)
- Anatomically accurate head and shaft
- Testicles or other anatomical details
Materials for realistic feel: Dual-density silicone (most realistic), TPE/TPR (very soft), CyberSkin or similar formulations (extremely realistic but maintenance-intensive)
Preference note: Whether realistic or non-realistic toys appeal to you is entirely personal. Some people find realistic anatomy arousing and immersive, while others prefer abstract, artistic, or fantasy designs. Neither preference is better—choose what resonates with you.
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With Balls/Testicles
What it means: Dildos or male masturbators featuring realistic or stylized testicles attached to the base.
Benefits:
- Realistic appearance: Completes the anatomical look
- Grip surface: Testicles provide a handle or grip point
- Depth limiter: Acts as a natural stopping point during penetration
- Visual and tactile stimulation: Enhances fantasy and sensory experience
- Harness compatibility: Many designs with balls work well in strap-on harnesses
Shop toys with balls: Browse our collection with testicles
Suction Cup Base
What it means: Toys featuring a strong suction cup on the base that adheres to smooth surfaces for hands-free, mountable use.
Benefits:
- Hands-free operation: Stick to walls, floors, shower tiles, or furniture
- Riding positions: Allows you to control depth, angle, and rhythm without holding the toy
- Shower/bath use: Perfect for wet environments where grip might be difficult
- Multiple surfaces: Use on floors for cowgirl-style riding, walls for standing positions, or chairs for seated play
- Often harness-compatible: Many suction cup toys also work with strap-on harnesses
Best surfaces: Smooth, non-porous surfaces work best—glass, smooth tile, acrylic, sealed countertops. Textured surfaces, porous materials like unsealed wood, and painted walls may not provide adequate suction.
Shop suction cup toys: Browse our suction cup dildo and toy collection
Harness-Compatible
What it means: Dildos designed with a flared or flat base that fits into the O-ring of a strap-on harness for hands-free, wearable penetration.
Key features:
- Flared, flat, or flanged base that prevents the toy from pulling through the harness
- Base diameter appropriate for standard O-rings (typically 1.5-2 inches)
- Not too long or heavy—typically 5-8 inches for comfortable wear
- Durable construction to withstand thrusting pressure
Best for: Couples of any gender combination, lesbian and queer couples, pegging (anal penetration of men by partners wearing strap-ons), individuals with erectile difficulties, anyone exploring penetrative role reversal
Complete kits: We offer complete strap-on kits with harness and dildo or individual harness-compatible dildos to pair with your existing harness.
Squirting/Ejaculating
What it means: Hollow dildos with an internal reservoir and bulb or syringe mechanism that allows you to make the toy "ejaculate" fluid.
Uses:
- Fantasy play: Enhances realism for those who enjoy ejaculation scenarios
- Lubrication delivery: Provides internal lubrication during use
- Visual stimulation: The visual element can be arousing
- Roleplay and scenarios: Useful for breeding fantasies or other specific scenarios
What to use: Fill with water-based lube, warm water, or specialized "cum lube" designed to mimic semen texture. Never use anything not body-safe—this fluid will enter your body.
Cleaning considerations: Squirting dildos require thorough cleaning of both the exterior and internal reservoir. Flush the chamber multiple times with warm water and toy cleaner after each use.
Shop squirting toys: Browse our ejaculating dildo collection
Penis Extension/Sleeve
What it means: Hollow sheaths that fit over a penis (erect or flaccid) to add length, girth, texture, or provide stimulation when erectile function is challenging.
Benefits:
- Size enhancement: Adds 1-4 inches of length and up to an inch of girth
- Textured stimulation: Provides unique sensations for the receiving partner
- Erectile assistance: Allows penetrative sex even without a firm erection
- Endurance: Can help delay ejaculation for longer sessions
- Fantasy play: Available in realistic and fantasy designs
Types:
- Open-ended extensions: Allow ejaculation through the toy
- Closed extensions: Prevent ejaculation, useful for endurance training
- Vibrating extensions: Include bullet vibrator pockets for added stimulation
- Textured extensions: Feature ridges, nubs, or other sensations
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Power and Control Features
Rechargeable
What it means: Toys with built-in rechargeable batteries (typically lithium-ion) that charge via USB, magnetic charger, or charging dock rather than requiring disposable batteries.
Benefits:
- Cost-effective: No ongoing battery purchases
- Environmentally friendly: Reduces battery waste
- More powerful: Rechargeable motors typically provide stronger, more consistent vibration
- Better design: No battery compartment means sleeker designs and better waterproofing
- Convenience: Just plug in to recharge—no running to the store mid-session
Considerations:
- Higher initial cost than battery-operated toys
- Must remember to charge (though most provide 1-2 hours of use per charge)
- Battery life degrades over years (typically 3-5 years before noticeable decline)
Charging types:
- USB rechargeable: Charges via USB cable from computers, wall adapters, or power banks
- Magnetic charging: Magnetic charger clicks onto toy—easier to connect and more waterproof
- Wireless charging: Some premium toys charge on wireless charging pads
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Waterproof
What it means: Toys designed and sealed to withstand full submersion in water without damage, making them safe for shower, bath, pool, or hot tub use.
Benefits:
- Shower and bath play: Use safely in wet environments
- Easy cleaning: Can be rinsed directly under running water or submerged for cleaning
- Hygiene: Waterproof construction typically means seamless designs with fewer crevices for bacteria
- Durability: Better sealed against bodily fluids and lubricants
- Versatility: Use anywhere without worry
Important distinction:
- Water-resistant/splash-proof: Can handle some moisture but shouldn't be submerged
- Waterproof/submersible: Fully sealed and safe for complete submersion
Always check the specific rating—water-resistant toys can be damaged if submerged.
Hot tub caution: While many waterproof toys are safe for hot tub use, be aware that hot water can affect battery life and that the public nature of most hot tubs makes this impractical. Also, never use oil-based lubricants in hot tubs as they damage the filtration system.
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Remote Control
What it means: Toys that include a separate physical remote control (not app-based) for operating the toy from a distance.
Benefits:
- Partner control: Give your partner control of your pleasure
- Hands-free adjustment: Change settings without reaching for the toy
- Public play: Discreet vibrators can be worn in public with partner control
- Accessibility: Easier to operate than controls on the toy itself
- Range: Most work from 15-30 feet away
Common in: Wearable vibrators, vibrating panties, some rabbit vibrators, couples' vibrators, and public play toys
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App-Controlled
What it means: Toys that connect to a smartphone app via Bluetooth, allowing control through your phone including custom patterns, music sync, video chat control, and long-distance features.
Advanced features:
- Custom patterns: Create and save your own vibration patterns
- Music sync: Vibrations match your music's rhythm
- Long-distance control: Partners can control your toy from anywhere in the world via internet
- Video chat integration: Some apps integrate with video calls for long-distance intimacy
- Detailed control: More nuanced control than physical buttons
- Discreet operation: Silent phone control instead of button clicking
Popular brands: We-Vibe, Lovense, OhMiBod, Kiiroo, and LELO all offer excellent app-controlled options
Privacy note: Choose reputable brands with good privacy policies. Your intimate data should be protected.
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Motion and Function Features
Vibrating
What it means: Toys equipped with motors that create vibrations at various speeds and intensities.
Vibration benefits:
- Increased sensitivity: Vibration stimulates more nerve endings than static pressure
- Faster arousal: Most people reach orgasm more quickly with vibration
- Variety: Different speeds and patterns provide varied sensations
- Accessibility: Helpful for people who have difficulty orgasming from manual stimulation
Vibration types:
- Surface vibrations: Buzzy, high-frequency vibrations felt primarily on the surface
- Deep, rumbly vibrations: Low-frequency vibrations that penetrate deeper into tissue—generally considered more satisfying
- Oscillating: Side-to-side motion rather than up-and-down vibration
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Multi-Speed
What it means: Vibrators offering multiple intensity levels, typically 3-10 different speeds from gentle to intense.
Benefits:
- Customization: Find your perfect intensity level
- Build-up: Start gentle and gradually increase intensity
- Variety: Different speeds for different activities or times
- Edge play: Vary intensity to build and hold arousal
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Multi-Function/Patterns
What it means: Vibrators offering various vibration patterns beyond constant vibration—pulses, waves, escalations, and complex rhythms.
Common patterns:
- Pulse: Rhythmic on-off vibration
- Escalation: Gradually building intensity
- Wave: Intensity rises and falls like waves
- Random: Unpredictable patterns that keep you guessing
- SOS or Morse code: Specific rhythm patterns
Why patterns matter: Different sensations prevent habituation, add variety to play, and some people find patterns more effective than steady vibration for reaching orgasm.
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Escalating
What it means: A specific vibration pattern that gradually increases in intensity, then typically drops back to low and repeats the cycle.
Why it's popular: This pattern mimics natural arousal build-up and can be more effective than constant vibration for some users. It's particularly useful for extended play sessions and edging (building arousal without orgasming).
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Rotating
What it means: Toys with rotating beads, heads, or shafts that spin or swirl rather than (or in addition to) vibrating.
Benefits:
- Unique sensation: Rotation feels very different from vibration
- Internal massage: Rotating beads massage the vaginal walls
- G-spot stimulation: Rotating heads can provide consistent G-spot pressure
- Variety: Different sensation without increasing intensity
Common in: Rabbit vibrators with rotating bead shafts, G-spot vibrators with rotating heads, and some anal toys
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Thrusting
What it means: Motorized toys that move in and out automatically, simulating thrusting motion during penetrative sex.
Benefits:
- Hands-free penetration: No manual thrusting required
- Consistent rhythm: Maintains steady pace without fatigue
- Adjustable speed: Most offer multiple thrusting speeds
- Accessibility: Great for people with hand/wrist fatigue or mobility limitations
- Realistic simulation: Mimics partner thrusting
Range of motion: Thrusting toys typically move 0.5-3 inches in and out. More isn't always better—sometimes smaller, faster thrusts feel better than large, slow ones.
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Pulsating
What it means: Toys that create pulsing sensations through rapid expansion and contraction rather than traditional vibration.
How it differs: Instead of shaking, pulsating toys create rhythmic pressure waves. This feels like a tapping or pumping sensation and can be more effective for G-spot or prostate stimulation than vibration alone.
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Suction/Air Pulse
What it means: Toys that use air pressure technology to create suction and pulsing sensations without direct contact, primarily for clitoral stimulation.
Revolutionary technology:
- No desensitization: Doesn't directly touch the clitoris, preventing numbness
- Unique sensation: Feels like oral sex or sucking/pulling sensations
- Intense orgasms: Many users report extremely powerful climaxes
- Quick results: Often produces orgasms faster than traditional vibration
- Multiple orgasms: Less recovery time between orgasms
Popular brands: Womanizer (the original), Satisfyer, LELO Sona, We-Vibe Melt
Usage tip: Create a seal around the clitoris with the silicone opening. Don't press too hard—let the suction do the work. Start on low settings and increase gradually.
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Warming
What it means: Toys with built-in heating elements that warm to body temperature or slightly above (typically 98-104°F).
Benefits:
- More realistic feel: Warm toys feel more lifelike
- Enhanced blood flow: Warmth increases circulation to the area
- Relaxation: Heat helps relax muscles and reduce tension
- Comfort: Eliminates the cold shock of room-temperature toys
Safety: Quality warming toys have thermostats that prevent overheating. They should never exceed 104°F (40°C). The warming feature is gentle and gradual—not hot.
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Electric Stimulation (E-Stim)
What it means: Toys that deliver controlled electrical impulses to nerve endings, creating unique tingling, pulsing, or contracting sensations.
What it does:
- Muscle contractions: Can cause involuntary muscle contractions and spasms
- Intense sensation: Creates sensations impossible to achieve with vibration alone
- Variety: Adjustable intensity from gentle tingling to intense pulsing
- Enhanced orgasms: Many users report more intense, full-body orgasms
Important safety information:
- Never use above the waist or near the heart
- Not safe for people with pacemakers, heart conditions, or during pregnancy
- Start at very low settings and increase gradually
- Use only with water-based lubricant (silicone lube can interfere with electrical contact)
- Stop immediately if you experience pain
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Feature Categories Quick Reference
How to Choose Based on Features
With so many features available, selection can feel overwhelming. Here's how to narrow down your choices:
| If you want... | Look for these features... | Browse these categories... |
|---|---|---|
| Safe, non-toxic toys | Phthalate-free, body-safe silicone, glass, or stainless steel | Phthalate-Free |
| Internal orgasms | G-spot curve, firm materials, possibly thrusting or pulsating | G-Spot |
| Simultaneous stimulation | Rabbit-style, dual motors, adjustable external arm | Rabbit-Style |
| Shower/bath use | Waterproof (not just water-resistant), rechargeable preferred | Waterproof |
| Hands-free play | Suction cup base, wearable design, or thrusting function | Suction Cup |
| Partner play | Remote control, app-controlled, harness-compatible | Remote, App |
| Powerful stimulation | Rechargeable, multi-speed, deep rumbly vibration | Rechargeable |
| Variety and customization | Multi-function patterns, app-controlled, adjustable features | Multi-Function |
| Unique sensations | Air suction, rotating, e-stim, or warming functions | Suction, Rotating |
| Eco-friendly options | Rechargeable, durable materials like glass or metal | Rechargeable, Glass |
Conclusion: Understanding Features Empowers Choice
Sex toy features have evolved dramatically from simple vibration to sophisticated technologies that provide customized, intense, and varied pleasure experiences. Understanding what these features mean, how they work, and which ones align with your preferences allows you to make informed purchasing decisions rather than being overwhelmed by options.
Remember:
- More features don't always mean better—sometimes simplicity is ideal
- Prioritize body-safe materials above all else
- Consider your actual use case—will you really use 20 vibration patterns?
- Read reviews to understand how features work in practice
- Start with fewer features and add complexity as you discover your preferences
- Quality matters more than quantity of features
Whether you're drawn to the simplicity of a beautifully crafted glass dildo, the technological sophistication of an app-controlled vibrator, or the intense sensations of air suction toys, understanding features helps you find your perfect match for pleasure, safety, and satisfaction.
Medical References and Research
Guidance on avoiding phthalate exposure through consumer products
EU ban on phthalates in products that contact mucous membranes
Studies showing correlation between toy use and sexual wellbeing
Medical guidance on latex-free product selection
Research documenting vibration's effectiveness for sexual stimulation
Standards for body-safe materials
Scientific basis for G-spot toy design
Safety requirements for e-stim and powered toys
Technical standards for water resistance claims
Practical guidance on feature benefits
This article is for informational and educational purposes only. Always prioritize body-safe materials, follow manufacturer instructions, and discontinue use if you experience pain or adverse reactions. Consult healthcare providers with any medical concerns related to sexual health or product use.
Complete Guide to Sex Toy Features: Understanding Materials, Functions, and Technologies
Modern sex toys incorporate an impressive array of features, materials, and technologies designed to enhance pleasure, safety, and convenience. Understanding these features helps you make informed decisions when selecting toys that match your preferences, needs, and lifestyle. This comprehensive guide explains every major feature category, from material composition and safety certifications to power options and specialized functions, helping you navigate the sometimes overwhelming world of adult toy specifications.
Material Features: Safety and Sensation
The material of a sex toy is perhaps its most important feature, affecting safety, sensation, maintenance, and longevity.
Phthalate-Free
What it means: The toy contains no phthalates—chemicals used to soften plastics that have been linked to hormone disruption and other health concerns.
Why it matters:
- Phthalates can leach from toys into body tissues during use
- Studies link phthalate exposure to reproductive health issues, hormone disruption, and developmental problems
- The EU has banned phthalates in children's toys due to health concerns
- Body-safe sex toys should always be phthalate-free
How to identify: Look for explicit "phthalate-free" labeling. Avoid "jelly rubber" and PVC toys unless specifically certified phthalate-free. Quality silicone, glass, metal, and ABS plastic toys are naturally phthalate-free.
Shop phthalate-free toys: Browse our complete phthalate-free collection
Latex-Free
What it means: The toy contains no natural rubber latex, making it safe for people with latex allergies or sensitivities.
Why it matters:
- Latex allergies affect 4-8% of the population and can range from mild irritation to severe allergic reactions
- Symptoms can include itching, redness, hives, or in severe cases, anaphylaxis
- Latex-free toys use alternative materials like silicone, polyisoprene, or nitrile
Common latex-free materials: Medical-grade silicone, TPE/TPR, glass, metal, ABS plastic, wood
Shop latex-free toys: Browse our latex-free collection
Glass
What it means: Toys made from borosilicate glass—the same durable, heat-resistant glass used in laboratory equipment and quality cookware.
Benefits:
- Temperature play: Can be safely warmed or cooled for unique sensations
- Hygiene: Non-porous surface doesn't harbor bacteria; can be fully sterilized
- Firmness: Provides intense, focused pressure ideal for G-spot or prostate stimulation
- Durability: When properly cared for, glass toys last a lifetime
- Aesthetics: Often beautifully designed with swirls, colors, or elegant shapes
- Compatible with all lubricants: Works with silicone, water-based, and oil-based lubes
Considerations:
- Very firm with no flexibility—not ideal for everyone
- Requires careful handling to avoid drops or impacts
- Inspect before each use for chips or cracks
- Can feel cold initially (though this warms quickly or can be a feature)
Temperature play tips: Warm glass toys in warm (not hot) water for 5-10 minutes, or cool in cool (not ice) water or the refrigerator. Never use boiling water, microwaves, or freezers—extreme temperature changes can damage the glass and create unsafe temperatures.
Shop glass toys: Browse our glass dildo and toy collection
Design Features: Shape and Function
G-Spot Design
What it means: Toys with a pronounced upward curve specifically angled to reach and stimulate the G-spot—an erogenous zone located 2-3 inches inside the vagina on the front wall.
Key characteristics:
- Upward curve that targets the front vaginal wall
- Often features a bulbous or wider tip for enhanced pressure
- May be angled at 30-45 degrees from the shaft
- Some include additional textures or ridges for intensified sensation
Best for: Those seeking internal orgasms, users who have difficulty reaching the G-spot with straight toys, anyone interested in exploring G-spot pleasure
Usage tip: Insert with the curve facing upward (toward your belly button) and use firm pressure against the front vaginal wall. G-spot stimulation often requires more pressure and time than clitoral stimulation.
Shop G-spot toys: Browse our G-spot vibrator and dildo collection
Rabbit-Style
What it means: Dual-stimulation toys featuring an insertable shaft for internal pleasure plus an external arm (traditionally shaped like rabbit ears) for simultaneous clitoral stimulation.
Benefits:
- Dual stimulation: Addresses both internal and external pleasure zones simultaneously
- Hands-free clitoral stimulation: The external arm stays in contact with the clitoris during penetration
- Enhanced orgasm potential: Combination stimulation often produces more intense orgasms
- Efficiency: Targets multiple pleasure zones without switching toys
Considerations:
- Requires specific anatomical fit—distance between vagina and clitoris varies, so not all rabbits work for all bodies
- Less flexible than using separate toys
- Can be bulkier and more complex than single-function toys
Variations: Modern rabbit-style toys include adjustable arms, flexible positioning, various shaft shapes (straight, curved, rotating), and both vibrating and non-vibrating external stimulators.
Shop rabbit vibrators: Browse our rabbit-style vibrator collection
Bendable/Flexible
What it means: Toys with bendable shafts or flexible construction that can be curved or positioned to match your anatomy and preferences.
Benefits:
- Customizable angles: Adjust to find your perfect G-spot or prostate angle
- Accommodates anatomy: Flexible toys adapt to your body rather than requiring your body to adapt to the toy
- Versatility: One toy can serve multiple positions and purposes
- Comfort: Flexibility typically makes insertion easier and more forgiving
- Partner play: Bendable toys can maintain contact during movement
Types of flexibility:
- Poseable wire core: Toys with internal wire that holds any shape you bend it into
- Naturally flexible silicone: Soft, squishy toys that bend during use but return to original shape
- Hinged or articulated: Toys with joints that lock into specific angles
Shop bendable toys: Browse our flexible and bendable collection
Realistic Feel/Design
What it means: Toys designed to look and feel like actual human anatomy, featuring details like veins, skin texture, defined heads, and anatomically accurate shapes.
Features may include:
- Realistic coloring and skin tones
- Textured surface mimicking skin and veins
- Dual-density construction (firm core with soft outer layer)
- Anatomically accurate head and shaft
- Testicles or other anatomical details
Materials for realistic feel: Dual-density silicone (most realistic), TPE/TPR (very soft), CyberSkin or similar formulations (extremely realistic but maintenance-intensive)
Preference note: Whether realistic or non-realistic toys appeal to you is entirely personal. Some people find realistic anatomy arousing and immersive, while others prefer abstract, artistic, or fantasy designs. Neither preference is better—choose what resonates with you.
Shop realistic toys: Browse our realistic dildo and toy collection
With Balls/Testicles
What it means: Dildos or male masturbators featuring realistic or stylized testicles attached to the base.
Benefits:
- Realistic appearance: Completes the anatomical look
- Grip surface: Testicles provide a handle or grip point
- Depth limiter: Acts as a natural stopping point during penetration
- Visual and tactile stimulation: Enhances fantasy and sensory experience
- Harness compatibility: Many designs with balls work well in strap-on harnesses
Shop toys with balls: Browse our collection with testicles
Suction Cup Base
What it means: Toys featuring a strong suction cup on the base that adheres to smooth surfaces for hands-free, mountable use.
Benefits:
- Hands-free operation: Stick to walls, floors, shower tiles, or furniture
- Riding positions: Allows you to control depth, angle, and rhythm without holding the toy
- Shower/bath use: Perfect for wet environments where grip might be difficult
- Multiple surfaces: Use on floors for cowgirl-style riding, walls for standing positions, or chairs for seated play
- Often harness-compatible: Many suction cup toys also work with strap-on harnesses
Best surfaces: Smooth, non-porous surfaces work best—glass, smooth tile, acrylic, sealed countertops. Textured surfaces, porous materials like unsealed wood, and painted walls may not provide adequate suction.
Shop suction cup toys: Browse our suction cup dildo and toy collection
Harness-Compatible
What it means: Dildos designed with a flared or flat base that fits into the O-ring of a strap-on harness for hands-free, wearable penetration.
Key features:
- Flared, flat, or flanged base that prevents the toy from pulling through the harness
- Base diameter appropriate for standard O-rings (typically 1.5-2 inches)
- Not too long or heavy—typically 5-8 inches for comfortable wear
- Durable construction to withstand thrusting pressure
Best for: Couples of any gender combination, lesbian and queer couples, pegging (anal penetration of men by partners wearing strap-ons), individuals with erectile difficulties, anyone exploring penetrative role reversal
Complete kits: We offer complete strap-on kits with harness and dildo or individual harness-compatible dildos to pair with your existing harness.
Squirting/Ejaculating
What it means: Hollow dildos with an internal reservoir and bulb or syringe mechanism that allows you to make the toy "ejaculate" fluid.
Uses:
- Fantasy play: Enhances realism for those who enjoy ejaculation scenarios
- Lubrication delivery: Provides internal lubrication during use
- Visual stimulation: The visual element can be arousing
- Roleplay and scenarios: Useful for breeding fantasies or other specific scenarios
What to use: Fill with water-based lube, warm water, or specialized "cum lube" designed to mimic semen texture. Never use anything not body-safe—this fluid will enter your body.
Cleaning considerations: Squirting dildos require thorough cleaning of both the exterior and internal reservoir. Flush the chamber multiple times with warm water and toy cleaner after each use.
Shop squirting toys: Browse our ejaculating dildo collection
Penis Extension/Sleeve
What it means: Hollow sheaths that fit over a penis (erect or flaccid) to add length, girth, texture, or provide stimulation when erectile function is challenging.
Benefits:
- Size enhancement: Adds 1-4 inches of length and up to an inch of girth
- Textured stimulation: Provides unique sensations for the receiving partner
- Erectile assistance: Allows penetrative sex even without a firm erection
- Endurance: Can help delay ejaculation for longer sessions
- Fantasy play: Available in realistic and fantasy designs
Types:
- Open-ended extensions: Allow ejaculation through the toy
- Closed extensions: Prevent ejaculation, useful for endurance training
- Vibrating extensions: Include bullet vibrator pockets for added stimulation
- Textured extensions: Feature ridges, nubs, or other sensations
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Power and Control Features
Rechargeable
What it means: Toys with built-in rechargeable batteries (typically lithium-ion) that charge via USB, magnetic charger, or charging dock rather than requiring disposable batteries.
Benefits:
- Cost-effective: No ongoing battery purchases
- Environmentally friendly: Reduces battery waste
- More powerful: Rechargeable motors typically provide stronger, more consistent vibration
- Better design: No battery compartment means sleeker designs and better waterproofing
- Convenience: Just plug in to recharge—no running to the store mid-session
Considerations:
- Higher initial cost than battery-operated toys
- Must remember to charge (though most provide 1-2 hours of use per charge)
- Battery life degrades over years (typically 3-5 years before noticeable decline)
Charging types:
- USB rechargeable: Charges via USB cable from computers, wall adapters, or power banks
- Magnetic charging: Magnetic charger clicks onto toy—easier to connect and more waterproof
- Wireless charging: Some premium toys charge on wireless charging pads
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Waterproof
What it means: Toys designed and sealed to withstand full submersion in water without damage, making them safe for shower, bath, pool, or hot tub use.
Benefits:
- Shower and bath play: Use safely in wet environments
- Easy cleaning: Can be rinsed directly under running water or submerged for cleaning
- Hygiene: Waterproof construction typically means seamless designs with fewer crevices for bacteria
- Durability: Better sealed against bodily fluids and lubricants
- Versatility: Use anywhere without worry
Important distinction:
- Water-resistant/splash-proof: Can handle some moisture but shouldn't be submerged
- Waterproof/submersible: Fully sealed and safe for complete submersion
Always check the specific rating—water-resistant toys can be damaged if submerged.
Hot tub caution: While many waterproof toys are safe for hot tub use, be aware that hot water can affect battery life and that the public nature of most hot tubs makes this impractical. Also, never use oil-based lubricants in hot tubs as they damage the filtration system.
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Remote Control
What it means: Toys that include a separate physical remote control (not app-based) for operating the toy from a distance.
Benefits:
- Partner control: Give your partner control of your pleasure
- Hands-free adjustment: Change settings without reaching for the toy
- Public play: Discreet vibrators can be worn in public with partner control
- Accessibility: Easier to operate than controls on the toy itself
- Range: Most work from 15-30 feet away
Common in: Wearable vibrators, vibrating panties, some rabbit vibrators, couples' vibrators, and public play toys
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App-Controlled
What it means: Toys that connect to a smartphone app via Bluetooth, allowing control through your phone including custom patterns, music sync, video chat control, and long-distance features.
Advanced features:
- Custom patterns: Create and save your own vibration patterns
- Music sync: Vibrations match your music's rhythm
- Long-distance control: Partners can control your toy from anywhere in the world via internet
- Video chat integration: Some apps integrate with video calls for long-distance intimacy
- Detailed control: More nuanced control than physical buttons
- Discreet operation: Silent phone control instead of button clicking
Popular brands: We-Vibe, Lovense, OhMiBod, Kiiroo, and LELO all offer excellent app-controlled options
Privacy note: Choose reputable brands with good privacy policies. Your intimate data should be protected.
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Motion and Function Features
Vibrating
What it means: Toys equipped with motors that create vibrations at various speeds and intensities.
Vibration benefits:
- Increased sensitivity: Vibration stimulates more nerve endings than static pressure
- Faster arousal: Most people reach orgasm more quickly with vibration
- Variety: Different speeds and patterns provide varied sensations
- Accessibility: Helpful for people who have difficulty orgasming from manual stimulation
Vibration types:
- Surface vibrations: Buzzy, high-frequency vibrations felt primarily on the surface
- Deep, rumbly vibrations: Low-frequency vibrations that penetrate deeper into tissue—generally considered more satisfying
- Oscillating: Side-to-side motion rather than up-and-down vibration
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Multi-Speed
What it means: Vibrators offering multiple intensity levels, typically 3-10 different speeds from gentle to intense.
Benefits:
- Customization: Find your perfect intensity level
- Build-up: Start gentle and gradually increase intensity
- Variety: Different speeds for different activities or times
- Edge play: Vary intensity to build and hold arousal
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Multi-Function/Patterns
What it means: Vibrators offering various vibration patterns beyond constant vibration—pulses, waves, escalations, and complex rhythms.
Common patterns:
- Pulse: Rhythmic on-off vibration
- Escalation: Gradually building intensity
- Wave: Intensity rises and falls like waves
- Random: Unpredictable patterns that keep you guessing
- SOS or Morse code: Specific rhythm patterns
Why patterns matter: Different sensations prevent habituation, add variety to play, and some people find patterns more effective than steady vibration for reaching orgasm.
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Escalating
What it means: A specific vibration pattern that gradually increases in intensity, then typically drops back to low and repeats the cycle.
Why it's popular: This pattern mimics natural arousal build-up and can be more effective than constant vibration for some users. It's particularly useful for extended play sessions and edging (building arousal without orgasming).
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Rotating
What it means: Toys with rotating beads, heads, or shafts that spin or swirl rather than (or in addition to) vibrating.
Benefits:
- Unique sensation: Rotation feels very different from vibration
- Internal massage: Rotating beads massage the vaginal walls
- G-spot stimulation: Rotating heads can provide consistent G-spot pressure
- Variety: Different sensation without increasing intensity
Common in: Rabbit vibrators with rotating bead shafts, G-spot vibrators with rotating heads, and some anal toys
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Thrusting
What it means: Motorized toys that move in and out automatically, simulating thrusting motion during penetrative sex.
Benefits:
- Hands-free penetration: No manual thrusting required
- Consistent rhythm: Maintains steady pace without fatigue
- Adjustable speed: Most offer multiple thrusting speeds
- Accessibility: Great for people with hand/wrist fatigue or mobility limitations
- Realistic simulation: Mimics partner thrusting
Range of motion: Thrusting toys typically move 0.5-3 inches in and out. More isn't always better—sometimes smaller, faster thrusts feel better than large, slow ones.
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Pulsating
What it means: Toys that create pulsing sensations through rapid expansion and contraction rather than traditional vibration.
How it differs: Instead of shaking, pulsating toys create rhythmic pressure waves. This feels like a tapping or pumping sensation and can be more effective for G-spot or prostate stimulation than vibration alone.
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Suction/Air Pulse
What it means: Toys that use air pressure technology to create suction and pulsing sensations without direct contact, primarily for clitoral stimulation.
Revolutionary technology:
- No desensitization: Doesn't directly touch the clitoris, preventing numbness
- Unique sensation: Feels like oral sex or sucking/pulling sensations
- Intense orgasms: Many users report extremely powerful climaxes
- Quick results: Often produces orgasms faster than traditional vibration
- Multiple orgasms: Less recovery time between orgasms
Popular brands: Womanizer (the original), Satisfyer, LELO Sona, We-Vibe Melt
Usage tip: Create a seal around the clitoris with the silicone opening. Don't press too hard—let the suction do the work. Start on low settings and increase gradually.
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Warming
What it means: Toys with built-in heating elements that warm to body temperature or slightly above (typically 98-104°F).
Benefits:
- More realistic feel: Warm toys feel more lifelike
- Enhanced blood flow: Warmth increases circulation to the area
- Relaxation: Heat helps relax muscles and reduce tension
- Comfort: Eliminates the cold shock of room-temperature toys
Safety: Quality warming toys have thermostats that prevent overheating. They should never exceed 104°F (40°C). The warming feature is gentle and gradual—not hot.
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Electric Stimulation (E-Stim)
What it means: Toys that deliver controlled electrical impulses to nerve endings, creating unique tingling, pulsing, or contracting sensations.
What it does:
- Muscle contractions: Can cause involuntary muscle contractions and spasms
- Intense sensation: Creates sensations impossible to achieve with vibration alone
- Variety: Adjustable intensity from gentle tingling to intense pulsing
- Enhanced orgasms: Many users report more intense, full-body orgasms
Important safety information:
- Never use above the waist or near the heart
- Not safe for people with pacemakers, heart conditions, or during pregnancy
- Start at very low settings and increase gradually
- Use only with water-based lubricant (silicone lube can interfere with electrical contact)
- Stop immediately if you experience pain
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Feature Categories Quick Reference
How to Choose Based on Features
With so many features available, selection can feel overwhelming. Here's how to narrow down your choices:
| If you want... | Look for these features... | Browse these categories... |
|---|---|---|
| Safe, non-toxic toys | Phthalate-free, body-safe silicone, glass, or stainless steel | Phthalate-Free |
| Internal orgasms | G-spot curve, firm materials, possibly thrusting or pulsating | G-Spot |
| Simultaneous stimulation | Rabbit-style, dual motors, adjustable external arm | Rabbit-Style |
| Shower/bath use | Waterproof (not just water-resistant), rechargeable preferred | Waterproof |
| Hands-free play | Suction cup base, wearable design, or thrusting function | Suction Cup |
| Partner play | Remote control, app-controlled, harness-compatible | Remote, App |
| Powerful stimulation | Rechargeable, multi-speed, deep rumbly vibration | Rechargeable |
| Variety and customization | Multi-function patterns, app-controlled, adjustable features | Multi-Function |
| Unique sensations | Air suction, rotating, e-stim, or warming functions | Suction, Rotating |
| Eco-friendly options | Rechargeable, durable materials like glass or metal | Rechargeable, Glass |
Conclusion: Understanding Features Empowers Choice
Sex toy features have evolved dramatically from simple vibration to sophisticated technologies that provide customized, intense, and varied pleasure experiences. Understanding what these features mean, how they work, and which ones align with your preferences allows you to make informed purchasing decisions rather than being overwhelmed by options.
Remember:
- More features don't always mean better—sometimes simplicity is ideal
- Prioritize body-safe materials above all else
- Consider your actual use case—will you really use 20 vibration patterns?
- Read reviews to understand how features work in practice
- Start with fewer features and add complexity as you discover your preferences
- Quality matters more than quantity of features
Whether you're drawn to the simplicity of a beautifully crafted glass dildo, the technological sophistication of an app-controlled vibrator, or the intense sensations of air suction toys, understanding features helps you find your perfect match for pleasure, safety, and satisfaction.
Medical References and Research
Guidance on avoiding phthalate exposure through consumer products
EU ban on phthalates in products that contact mucous membranes
Studies showing correlation between toy use and sexual wellbeing
Medical guidance on latex-free product selection
Research documenting vibration's effectiveness for sexual stimulation
Standards for body-safe materials
Scientific basis for G-spot toy design
Safety requirements for e-stim and powered toys
Technical standards for water resistance claims
Practical guidance on feature benefits
This article is for informational and educational purposes only. Always prioritize body-safe materials, follow manufacturer instructions, and discontinue use if you experience pain or adverse reactions. Consult healthcare providers with any medical concerns related to sexual health or product use.
