Frequently Asked Questions

Everything you need to know about shopping, ordering, shipping, and privacy

🛒 Ordering Process

How do I place an order? +

Ordering is simple and secure:

  • Browse our products and add items to your cart
  • Click the cart icon to review your items
  • Click "Checkout" when ready
  • Enter shipping and billing information
  • Choose your payment method
  • Review and confirm your order

You'll receive an email confirmation immediately after placing your order.

Can I order without creating an account? +

Yes! We offer guest checkout for your convenience. However, creating an account provides benefits like:

  • Order tracking and history
  • Faster checkout with saved addresses
  • Wishlist functionality
  • Exclusive member discounts
  • Early access to sales
Can I modify or cancel my order? +

Orders can be modified or cancelled within 1 hour of placement. After that, our warehouse team begins processing. To request changes:

  • Email us immediately at orders@discreet.toys
  • Include your order number
  • Specify the changes needed

Once shipped, orders cannot be cancelled but can be returned according to our return policy.

How do I track my order? +

Tracking is available for all orders:

  • You'll receive a shipping confirmation email with tracking number
  • Click the tracking link in the email
  • Or log into your account to view order status
  • Guest orders can be tracked using order number and email

📦 Shipping & Delivery

🚚 Free Shipping: We offer free standard shipping on orders over $59. Express and overnight options available at checkout.

What are the shipping options and costs? +

We offer several shipping options:

  • Standard Shipping (5-7 business days): $5.99 or FREE over $59
  • Express Shipping (2-3 business days): $14.99
  • Overnight (1 business day): $29.99
  • International Standard (7-14 days): $19.99

Business days exclude weekends and holidays. Orders placed after 2 PM EST ship the next business day.

Do you ship internationally? +

Yes, we ship to most countries worldwide. Please note:

  • International orders may be subject to customs fees
  • Delivery times vary by destination (7-21 days)
  • Some products may be restricted in certain countries
  • Tracking may be limited once package leaves the US
Can I ship to a P.O. Box or APO/FPO address? +

Yes for standard shipping only. Express and overnight shipping require a physical street address. APO/FPO addresses are accepted with standard shipping (allow extra time for delivery).

What if my package is lost or damaged? +

We'll make it right! If your package is:

  • Lost: We'll reship or refund after carrier investigation (3-5 days)
  • Damaged: Send photos to support@discreet.toys for immediate replacement
  • Stolen: File a police report and we'll work with you on resolution

All packages are insured for your protection.

🔒 Privacy & Discretion

🔐 Your Privacy Guaranteed: We understand discretion is paramount. Every aspect of your order is handled with complete confidentiality.

How discreet is the packaging? +

Maximum discretion is our standard:

  • Plain brown or white boxes/envelopes with no logos
  • Return address shows "DT Fulfillment" or "Online Order"
  • No product descriptions on package or labels
  • Contents not visible or identifiable from outside
  • Billing shows as "DT ONLINE" on statements
Will anyone know what I ordered? +

Absolutely not. Your privacy is protected at every level:

  • No marketing materials included in packages
  • Invoices use discrete product codes, not names
  • Email communications don't include product details
  • We never sell or share customer information
  • Delivery drivers cannot see package contents
How do you protect my personal information? +

We use industry-leading security measures:

  • 256-bit SSL encryption for all transactions
  • PCI-compliant payment processing
  • No storage of credit card details
  • Secure, encrypted customer database
  • Regular security audits and updates
  • Optional two-factor authentication for accounts
Can I use a different shipping name/address? +

Yes! Many customers ship to:

  • Work addresses
  • Amazon lockers or pickup points
  • Hotels (for travel)
  • Friends' addresses (with permission)

Just ensure someone can receive the package at the delivery address.

💳 Payment Options

What payment methods do you accept? +

We accept multiple secure payment options:

  • Credit/Debit Cards: Visa, MasterCard, American Express, Discover
  • Digital Wallets: PayPal, Apple Pay, Google Pay
  • Buy Now, Pay Later: Klarna, Afterpay, Sezzle
  • Cryptocurrency: Bitcoin, Ethereum (for maximum privacy)
  • Gift Cards: Our store gift cards
Is my payment information secure? +

Absolutely. Your financial security is our priority:

  • PCI DSS Level 1 certified (highest level)
  • 256-bit SSL encryption on all pages
  • Tokenized payment processing
  • No credit card numbers stored on our servers
  • Fraud detection and prevention systems
  • 3D Secure authentication available
Can I use multiple payment methods? +

Currently, we accept one payment method per order. However, you can:

  • Use gift cards combined with another payment method
  • Apply store credit with any payment type
  • Use discount codes with all payment methods
When is my card charged? +

Payment timing depends on your method:

  • Credit/Debit Cards: Charged immediately upon order confirmation
  • PayPal: Instant charge through PayPal
  • Buy Now, Pay Later: Per provider's terms (usually 4 payments)
  • Cryptocurrency: Must be sent within 15 minutes of order

↩️ Returns & Refunds

What is your return policy? +

We offer a 30-day satisfaction guarantee with conditions:

  • Unopened items: Full refund within 30 days
  • Defective items: Full refund or replacement anytime
  • Opened items: Due to hygiene, we cannot accept returns on opened intimate products
  • Accessories/Lingerie: Returnable if tags attached

Return shipping is free for defective items, customer pays for other returns.

How do I return an item? +

Easy return process:

  • Contact support@discreet.toys with order number
  • Explain reason for return
  • Receive return authorization and label
  • Pack items securely in original packaging if possible
  • Drop off at any shipping location
  • Refund processed within 5-7 days of receipt
What if I received the wrong item? +

We'll fix it immediately:

  • Contact us with order number and photo of received item
  • We'll ship the correct item with express shipping at no cost
  • Return the incorrect item with our prepaid label
  • Receive a 15% discount code for the inconvenience
How long do refunds take? +

Refund timeline by payment method:

  • Credit/Debit Cards: 5-10 business days
  • PayPal: 3-5 business days
  • Store Credit: Instant upon return processing
  • Buy Now, Pay Later: Per provider's policy

You'll receive email confirmation when refund is processed.

🎁 Product Information

Are all products body-safe? +

Yes! We prioritize your health and safety:

  • All products are phthalate-free
  • Medical-grade silicone, ABS plastic, or stainless steel
  • No toxic materials like jelly or PVC
  • Products tested for safety compliance
  • Clear material listings on all product pages
  • Care instructions included with each item
Do products come with warranties? +

Many products include manufacturer warranties:

  • Premium brands: 1-10 year warranties
  • Electronic items: Typically 1-2 years
  • Non-motorized items: 30-90 day quality guarantee
  • Warranty info listed on product pages
  • We handle all warranty claims for you
How do I choose the right product? +

We offer several resources to help:

  • Detailed product descriptions and specifications
  • Customer reviews and ratings
  • Size guides and comparison charts
  • Buying guides for each category
  • Live chat support for personalized recommendations
  • Filter options by size, material, features, price
Are the product reviews real? +

100% authentic customer reviews:

  • Verified purchase badge for confirmed buyers
  • No incentivized or fake reviews
  • Both positive and negative reviews published
  • Review photos from real customers
  • Helpful voting system to highlight useful reviews

🌟 First Time Buyers Guide

💜 Welcome! New to adult toys? You're in the right place. We make your first purchase comfortable, discreet, and enjoyable.

I'm nervous about my first purchase. Any advice? +

It's completely normal to feel nervous! Here's how to start:

  • Start with beginner-friendly products (clearly marked on our site)
  • Read our buying guides for each category
  • Consider starting with something simple and non-intimidating
  • Check customer reviews from other beginners
  • Remember: there's no rush - explore at your own pace
  • Our customer service is judgment-free and helpful
What should I buy as a beginner? +

Popular beginner-friendly options include:

  • Bullet vibrators: Small, simple, affordable
  • Personal lubricant: Enhances any experience
  • Small silicone toys: Body-safe and easy to clean
  • Starter kits: Curated sets for beginners
  • External stimulators: Non-intimidating starting point

Look for our "Beginner Friendly" badge on products!

How do I know what size to get? +

Size selection made easy:

  • Each product page shows exact dimensions
  • Compare to common objects for reference
  • Start smaller than you think you need
  • Filter products by size (small, medium, large)
  • Read reviews from people with similar experience levels
  • Remember: bigger isn't always better!
What else do I need besides the toy? +

Essential accessories for the best experience:

  • Lubricant: Water-based works with all materials
  • Toy cleaner: Keep products hygienic
  • Storage bag: Discrete and clean storage
  • Batteries/Charger: If not rechargeable

We offer starter bundles that include everything you need!

👤 Account & Membership

What are the benefits of creating an account? +

Join our community for exclusive perks:

  • Track orders and view order history
  • Save multiple shipping addresses
  • Create wishlists for future purchases
  • Earn reward points on every purchase
  • Exclusive member-only discounts (10% off first order)
  • Early access to sales and new products
  • Birthday discount codes
  • Product recommendations based on preferences
How do reward points work? +

Earn and redeem points easily:

  • Earn 1 point for every $1 spent
  • 100 points = $5 off your next order
  • Bonus points on your birthday (50 points)
  • Double points during special promotions
  • Points never expire while account is active
  • Refer friends for 200 bonus points
How do I update my account information? +

Managing your account is simple:

  • Log into your account dashboard
  • Click "Account Settings"
  • Update email, password, or addresses
  • Manage email preferences
  • View and use reward points
  • Download order invoices
Can I delete my account? +

Yes, you have full control over your data:

  • Contact support@discreet.toys to request deletion
  • All personal data removed within 30 days
  • Order history retained for legal requirements only
  • Option to export your data before deletion
  • Unsubscribe from emails without deleting account

Still Have Questions?

Our friendly customer service team is here to help!

📧 Email

contactus@discreet.toys

Response within 24 hours

💬 Live Chat

Available Mon-Fri 9AM-6PM EST

Click chat bubble on any page

📱 Text

1-813-602-2480

Text "HELP" to get started

📞 Phone

1-813-602-2480

Mon-Fri 10AM-5PM EST